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Vol. I, No. 2 - February, 2007

THE BELLS IN OUR EARS

J. Kingston Cowart

In the ancient world, Hittite chariot horses were bridled with bells at their ears shortly after birth. This was part of their training for war.

Everywhere they went, the sound of the bells went with them and became a constant, familiar part of their lives.

Thus the clash and clamor of battle did not upset them. The more their comforting bells jangled in combat, the more reassured the horses became - even when driven to their deaths.

We, too, have bells in our ears.

They are the constant, mostly subconscious, voices which one way or another have given us "the words we live by."

They are so familiar and constant that they jingle, clang, and jangle in the background of every decision we make, every reaction we have.

In times of crisis, they become louder and even more persuasive - clanging all the more intensely when serious change is called for.

They reassure us that our conditioned worldview is consistent with reality - even when it is not.

But life requires change and change is not a matter of familiarity and reassurance.

It's promise involves the new, the strange, the uncertain.

We cannot heed, or even hear, the call to change while listening to the bells of the past.

In order to be free of them we must remove the bridles given us by our trainers - the experiences with parents, teachers, and others which have shaped who think we are and what we can expect in life.

Then we can hear the true voice - the voice within, the one that calls us to ourselves.

That voice has no clang or jangle.

It does not serve our conditioning.

Instead, it has the still, soft ring of truth.

It guides us in our own directions, not those we have received from others.

To become attuned to it, just spend some quiet meditative time with yourself each day.

After a time it will speak to you. You will hear it.

Your responses to the world and its changes will then be free, authentic, unbridled - and completely in tune with who you really are.

Taking time for this is simple. It is easy. It is also easy to overlook.

Nevertheless, it is a quiet, positive path that leads to great things - including the absence of worry, anxiety, confusion, and the effects of situational depression.

And its a real relief not to have to hear those clangy old bells any more!


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